this is a post dedicated to all the suggestions that women need to learn to enjoy anal sex or that cis women need to learn how to squirt
missy elliot is most definitely grrrl army.
Can I just stop and talk about how Missy Elliot is essentially my fucking patronus?
Because this woman….
This woman is what I channel when I’m feeling like shit because of the anti-dark skin, anti-fat bullshit that I see and hear every fucking day.
Because her songs, even after she lost the weight, are all about how she don’t give NO FUCK because her weight ain’t affectin how she is a sexual being.
And she is ALL about her fucking bodily autonomy and sexual positivity.
The song “Pump it up” had the line “I shake my gut like ‘YEAH BITCH, WHAT?’” and I literally LOST MY SHIT at hearing it.
Because when’s the last time you EVER heard a song speak fondly of a woman who had a fucking stomach?
I could write a fucking dissertation about how fucking profound she is…
Poster I designed circa 2010.
“You are worthy of divine, succulent, orgasmic pleasure.
Sex is a gift, sex is nourishment, sex is beautiful.
Your body is perfect the way it is.”
…but we don’t act like it. especially not in HC. unless we’re talking about summer fest meat markets or somebody else’s business. We judge each other for who, how, and how much they do or don’t fuck. And the fact of the matter is- it makes fucking a lot less fun. We need help. Our cute little subculture needs sex therapy. So lets all work this out together through a little creative therapy, shall we?
Let’s hear allll about the different ways and reasons that people get down. Stick figure drawings. Weird stories. Collages. Photos. You name it. You don’t have to attach your name but you don’t have to be weirded out either. Sex is supposed to be a good thing, right?
Submit whatever you got to contribute. It’s totally great- everyone will think it’s awesome I swear. Drop it off in this nice little folder below (or you can email me too: everybodyf.cks at g mail dot com, or, you know hand it to me IRL) and in a few months we’ll shuffle em all up and staple that shit together.